Category Archives: i-Learn

the benefits of being single

i tried. after 12 yrs of being single, i decided to give this a try. at least i tried. perhaps it wasnt the right timing, perhaps it wasnt the match, perhaps it was just that we are from 2 continents.

but i tried. and at least now i know for sure that being single has so much perks to it. not being emotionally attached to someone makes you worry less.

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Posted by on December 16, 2017 in i-Learn, i-LiveMyLife, i-Reflect


In search of the quiet


This photo was taken in bohol in june this yr by kayakasia.

Came across the photo while scrolling thru fb. To me, the photo speaks of quiet. of peace and quiet. Contrary to what i was feeling that day.

That day, we did a 19km sea crossing and the current was against us the whole time. It was my first time attempting the 4 day kayak trip on a single sea kayak. I was the slowest and i was the last. Often times i was alone too, save for the times when 2 ppl took turns to hang around me in case i couldn’t manage. That day, i heard among the harshest words in my head. I wanted to give up and i didnt think i could make it. Several other negative thoughts passed my mind, of things that didn’t even relate to my paddling against the current. I made it to the shore in the end. 2hrs after the first guy reached, 20 min after my friend reached. I was proud of myself for not giving up.

This year has been a mental struggle for me. But i have through worse and made it out. I will make it through this one too. I will make it through to the quiet.

Just keep paddling.

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Posted by on September 14, 2016 in i-Learn, i-Reflect


as time passes you by

it’s been a while since ive written. been too busy with work and when im not busy with work im busy holidaying. just last week i was with my man on a beach, thinking that we would have been together for 2 yrs in 2 days time. in the weeks preceding and after i came back, lots of things happened. which made me think of some life changing choices… choices that i have made since 2010 that have made me a happier person. because life is just too short to remain miserable. this week, i made another choice. why stay unhappy and complain when you know you have the choice to change the circumstance? after much reflection and thinking, i decided to do it. this continues the uncertainty of my man and me. but when the time is right, i think we will work this out. and until then, we will stay positive and keep the faith.

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Posted by on September 22, 2014 in i-Learn


sharing something i think is important for personal development

have a read, let go and live your life.

20 things to let go of

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Posted by on July 17, 2013 in i-Learn, i-Reflect


the journey is the story of our life

“but Life teaches a lot of things. so the past is nothing to be ashamed of”

the day comes when one incident is no longer the central focus of your life.

i have learnt.


i have it in me to complete this.

i know i can do this.


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Posted by on December 5, 2012 in i-Learn


Protected: maybe sometimes ‘passion’ is not good enough

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Posted by on November 29, 2012 in i-Learn, i-Wish

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