can it be that simple? just a series of choices. the choice to care, to decide you dont care, to understand this is not what you want anymore?
surely there must be something that binds 2 ppl…. marriage is not it. it can be it if both parties work at it together. but, if it becomes a routine, ppl lose interest and end up divorcing.
maybe it is that simple. you choose to keep your spouse happy by not cheating. you choose to surprise her to make her smile. you choose to show affection because it makes you happy.
maybe its not that simple when all other factors come in. money, work, time, differences…..